How to Let Your Life Crash While Maintaining the Control?

Thejennablog
3 min readOct 14, 2022
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Too many things had happened in a row. Anxiety, stress, and fearful thoughts have piled up in the depth of your mind. Yet, you have just gone on, performing your days, because you have had to. Because of yourself and your loved ones, you have needed to stay strong. But when this one thing happens, it feels like an entire world has collapsed on your shoulders.

Accept That What Goes up Always Comes Down

Sun doesn’t always shine. At some point, rain and stormy weather will arrive. You cannot see it, but the sun is still on the horizon. The same applies to human lives. Nothing can go up straight line without an end. When we go high on our emotions and happiness, some events in life can shoot us down in a second.

Accepting that these seasons are part of life can give you calmness. You can live a peaceful life when you can enjoy happy moments without fear that any moment all that can be gone. Trusting that, eventually, everything will turn good is a game changer and eases your entire being.

Learn to See Challenges as a Valuable Teacher

You seldom are ready for various things that can happen in your life. Still, you can improve your mentality to take charge and guide you through difficult times.

The lowest moments in my life have always given me the most. However, the great turning point was when I changed my attitude from a victim mentality to seeing that challenges were an inevitable part of my growth journey. First, some of my experiences have taken me down, but because of my openness, they have shown me lessons I needed to learn.

Seeing challenges as a part of your passage and as precious guidance can profoundly influence your life. At the moment, when something traumatic happens, it can feel like a truck has just driven over you. However, you learn to cherish that feeling because you know something better is waiting for you.

You could have made a mistake; someone close to you could be taken away from your life, or just a tiny little pump that can crash your life temporarily; its purpose is to give you a different perspective. This event happened so that it could teach you to understand more about yourself.

Overcoming Difficulties Can Make You a Reborn

No matter what happens in your life, you can recreate yourself. Any challenge can eventually turn you into a more extraordinary masterpiece of yourself. But only if you accept what has happened and let it show you a new direction.

Life is not about avoiding mistakes, taking risks, and staying on the safe side. Instead, it should be feeling highs of various emotions, satisfaction from doing what you love, and ecstasy from conquering difficulties.

In any situation, it is okay to feel blue for a while. But you need to visualize life after being recovered and start the healing process shortly. Remember, that this new version of you is always greater, stronger, and more robust version of you than ever before.

With Love,
Jenna

Founder of Thejennablog, Author of ‘The Scammer’s Trap’

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