One Way of Communication that Can Change All Your Relationships

Loud words are shouted in the air, turning into whispers and echoes on the wall. These combinations of letters have become weapons that slaughter their opponent, like sharp swords. Only a fraction of a second decides the direction. When emotions rule, both parties have lost the game. Whatever they wanted to achieve has turned into hopeless cry with no resolution.

Courtesy is the Key to Lasting Relationships

Courtesy was something that I did not learn at home. Communication between my parents has been everything else, but you can never describe their relationship with this word. I didn’t see the ideal way of communicating with people at home, so I ended up in very stormy relationships.

Two long relationships full of jealousy, blame, and battles left me wondering, ‘Why have all my relationships turned into slaughter scenery?’ When I started my full-on personal development journey 5 years ago, I also began to understand why my love boats crashed every time. I figured out the absolute truth about why my relationships were unsuccessful; the reason was me.

You need to change to see the change around you. Not all relationships are meant to work, but all relationships change and evolve. You decide the direction. If you treat people well, eventually, they start treating you well. If it doesn’t help, you can always walk away.

Find a Way to a Life Without Criticism

Many of us have heard, religious or not, the story of Jesus and the sinned woman. The one who has never made any mistakes or sinned is the one who can throw the first stone in real life too. It’s impossible. Only a newborn child can be innocent in this world.

For this reason, it’s better to look at your own terrace that needs cleaning instead of barking at the neighbor’s mess. It is a game changer when you learn to refrain from criticism in any situation and instead try thinking about why the other person is in that current situation.

You become happier when you refrain from criticizing others for their actions and concentrating on spreading positivity around you. When you don’t join discussions where people criticize others or things, they are influenced by your good behavior. When you live through yourself, you will feel better and not look at what’s happening on the other side.

Compassion Makes People Want to Be around You

Different self-development books are full of research on successful leaders, politicians, and influencers and why they have been loved. The secret behind the success of these people lies in communication. They were known as sincere, honest, and understanding persons.

Instead of blaming another person for their failure, you can provide compassion and guidance. You can help people to walk through difficult moments in their lives and teach them how to learn from mistakes that they have made. All of us are eventually the same, and no human is better than the other.

People like to be around you when you are known as a person of empathy. They trust you and want to be with you in your personal life or business. No matter your position, these principles apply everywhere and to anyone. So have the courage to look in the mirror, always take responsibility for your own shit, and treat others the best way you can.

With Love,
Jenna

Founder of Thejennablog, Author of ‘The Scammer’s Trap’

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