What an interesting writing, Tim. Part of you is preparing for a chaotic battlefield. Perhaps many issues and chaos in family life are caused by presumptions that people get from others. When you have no expectations but create your world, everything is possible.

From the day your baby girl is born, you can teach her to join you at the gym during quiet time, watch you write while some interesting toys move, and play music above her.

It's about creativity and making things work how you want them to. Don't recklessly drown yourself in work now because this world will never be ready.